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Saturday, January 15, 2011

Magnet Men

Yesterday, Maina Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi were talking about magnet men aka chic magnets. Mwalimu was of the opinion that every man is a magnet. So they were asking what it takes to be a woman magnet and what makes women go after such men.

My Human Opinion

In some way, as Mwalimu suggested, every man is indeed a woman magnet. Magnet of what kind of woman is the question. However, methinks every man can attract any woman he wants. Keeping that attraction is another thing. Anyway, back to the question.

It's actually simple to be a woman magnet. It's called masculinity.

Masculinity is not just the man's physical attributes but it's more of the way he carries himself.


Search anywhere and you'll see that they all say the same thing. Confidence!

A man who attracts women instantly exude confidence. That means he is knows who he is and is fine with who he is. He walks into a room and he keeps his head high. He knows that he may not be the best looking, the richest, the tallest, the most muscular but his masculine vibes will draw in the women.

The other attributes some how appear when confidence is in place:
  • Sense of humor
  • Smiling
  • Eye contact
  • Sensitivity (not too much though)
  • Sense of style (okay this one can lead to confidence not the other way round)
  • Intelligence (or appearance of it)
  • etc
Such things make woman got after such men.

My Biblical Opinion

There is no shortage of woman magnets in the Bible. And for some of them their magnetism was to their detriment.

Joseph 'dreamcoat', Samson 'the terminator', Sir King David, Sage King Solomon, 'metro-sexual' Absalom, just to mention a few. There is one more, our Lord Jesus Christ.

Yeah, Jesus is the ultimate woman magnet. Actually, a magnet for all. Hear what he said in John 12:30-32
30 Jesus said, “This voice was for your benefit, not mine. 31 Now is the time for judgment on this world; now the prince of this world will be driven out. 32 And I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself.
What other magnet do you need. Jesus paid the ultimate price so that he can have a relationship with you. He's irresistible.

So don't reject his vibe or it will be too late. 

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