Should a man deny his wife 'njyes'?

Well, today the roles were reversed. Maina and Mwalimu were talking about men who deny their women 'njyes'. Women argued that men should be ever ready for 'njyes' whenever their ladies are ready. Mwalimu was of the opinion that 'njyes' should come in milestones and that men are not 'njyes' machines. They also wanted to know how often is often enough

My Human Opinion

Like the previous topic, should women deny men 'njyes', this is not a topic that you can give a definite answer. That said, it's rather obvious that most men are not 'njyes' machines. However, there exists certain men (and don't ask us where to find these men) whose libido and stamina is much above average. But again, the said stamina cannot last forever. How often is often? Answer that yourself.

'Njyes' is not a competition. It should be for the mutual benefit for both partners. And the couple should strive to increase intimacy in other ways if 'njyes' is not happening. Thus it's not the end of the world if the woman gets ready and the man is not. But the couple should communicate effectively to avoid it being the end, literally.

My Biblical Opinion

My Biblical opinion for this topic will remain relatively the same as the previous one.I will just emphasize 1 Corinthians 7:5

⁵ Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

Enough said. See you tomorrow.