When the wife is the breadwinner who is the looser?

For the last few days, Maina Kageni and Mwalimu have been discussing about women who are the main breadwinners in their homes. Should the husband keep off the wife's money? Should the husband live according to his or his wife's means? As always, money matters are sensitive. There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Just opinions.

Is it official or not?

Finally, Maina wa Kageni is launching his website soon, a little bit too late I must say. But he is using the Classic 105 feed from Home.co.ke.

I thought he would have access to an audio stream that is direct, straight from the frying pan?

I guess I thought wrong. Let's wait and see.

Tales of mama's boy

Yesterday our hosts at Classic 105 were talking about mamas' boys. A certain caller called in to say that she knew of a lady who lives with her 47-year old son. Mwalimu was of the opinion that such mothers are messing up with boys such that they (the 'boys') become undatable and unmarriable. So they were asking whether such mothers are over-spoiling their sons.

My Human Opinion

I totally agree with Mwalimu Kingangi on this one. Four-seven years, and still at home!! Even someone half that age should not still be living with their parents. Woi! It is indeed sad seeing a man refusing to grow up.

There is no excuse this man or such like him can give. At the very, very least, he should move out of the 'main' house to the 'extension' or SQ.

Ummarriable? Consider this. If a man can't take care of himself, who will he take of?

My Biblical Opinion

Jacob is the first guy that pops to mind when I think of a mama's boy from the Bible.

Genesis 25:27-28
27 The boys grew up, and Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was content to stay at home among the tents. 28 Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob.

However, do not, even for an instant, assume that Jacob was a sissy. Yes, he liked cooking and hanging around the kitchen. But he physically wrestled with God. And could have won if God didn't zap his hip.

Anyway, the Bible is very clear from the beginning how things should go down.

Genesis 2:24
That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.

I need not say more. Man, go find a wife.

Tell me, who's fooling who?

Today is Fools' Day. And as such we shall fool each other by combining the last two Day's topics into one—and no one will be the wiser.

Yesterday, akina Maina and crew were talking about njyes training for men, a topic that was discussed until late in the night on 'fakebook'.

Today, they are talking about how many Kenyan women complain about how Kenyan men are 'useless'.

Danger...again!

Our dear hosts at classic 105 seem to be running out of topics to talk about. I can give them suggestions if they are interested though.

For the past two days, they have been talking about polygamy, read Akuku Danger.

Well, click here for the previous post about Akuku Danger.

Do beautiful women make good wives?

Today Maina wa Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi were talking about beautiful women. Apparently, there are beautiful women who know that they are beautiful such that some men claim that they cannot make good wives. Mwalimu said that such women can show you proper matharau.

Do Kenyan single women intimidate single Kenyan men?

Yesterday, our hosts were talking about single women. Apparently, there are single Kenyan women who are undateable and intimidate Kenyan men to the point that they (the single women) cannot be approached.

This topic has somewhat being discussed here before.

Here are some previous related posts,

• Are Kenyan women unapproachable?
• Desperate Single Women?
• Qualities a woman looks for in a man.
• Qualities a man looks for in a woman