A woman who lends money...

Yesterday, our hosts were talking about money. Apparently, when you borrow money from your wife/girlfriend, you should never misuse it nor fail to pay it back. Mwalimu Kingangi insisted that borrowing money from your woman was not a good idea and could lead to painful results.

Are rich Kenyan men stingy?

Yesterday, our hosts were talking about rich Kenyan men. Apparently rich Kenyan men are very stingy with their money. They will spend money buying a house or paying rent, a car, a holiday, on school fees but will never give you hard cash. True?

The Day for Women to...

Today is the International Women's Day. Therefore, our hosts today were inviting the women to take this opportunity and tell the men exactly what they want.

My Human Opinion

Today we celebrate women. Mothers, wives, sisters, girlfriends, daughters, all women of the world. We salute you.

Now come on dear peoples. That question cannot be answered—exactly. What do women want? Everything? Nothing? Anything? Something? Who knows, even women are sometimes not sure what they want. I won't even offer an opinion here. Let's just read what the Bible says.

My Biblical Opinion

Genesis 1:26a and 27b
Then God said, "Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominionover the fish of the sea...
So God created created man in His own image...male and female He created them.

In a nutshell, we are made in God's image. So, in the beginning, before the fall of mankind, our 'want' was to worship and fellowship with God.

Ecclesiastes 12:13
Let us hear the conclusion of the matter:
Fear God and keep His commandments. For this is man's all.

However, we don't usually keep to this 'conclusion'!

And this leads me to what women want. Are you ready?

Genesis 3:16
To the woman He said:
"I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children; Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you."

Well, this verse is usually misinterpreted, however, this is my take.
Women will desire relationships, read husband in the verse. She will desire to rule over her relationships, read husband. But her relationships, read husband, will rule over her. Rule in the sense of decisions, time, emotions, and in some cases rule quite literally.

Does this explain why women have difficulties in their relationships with men? I don't know.
But the conclusion of the matter is; whether you know what women want or not, celebrate the women in you life.

Maid of honour?

Today, Maina wa Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi were talking about maids. Apparently a lot of married women are letting the maids take over in terms of cooking, cleaning and raising the kids. Mwalimu was of the opinion that when a woman let's the maid take over, their value diminishes.

Does getting born again mean you stop njyes?

Today Maina Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi were talking about the situation when your spouse gets 'too saved' that they take some of your marital privileges, aka freaky njyes or no njyes. Should you accept this and adjust to their new life?

Can you tell someone's wallet-size by looking at them?

The other day, Maina Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi were talking about ladies who apparently can tell the size of a man's wallet the minute they see you. Within the first few minutes, they can tell whether the man is a winner or a loser. Maina and Mwalimu also wanted to know if their initial judgment turned out to be true.

Tycoon-seekers vs Tycoon-fakers

Yesterday, Maina Kageni and Mwalimu Kingangi were talking about a story in one of the daily newspapers. Apparently, women who are looking for 'financially stable' men sometimes end up finding men who are fake tycoons. What gives?